Fix demo-build distros that do not support C++17 by default

[scotthart]

Apache Arrow requires C++17. For several older distros compiling and linking a C++17 program requires additional steps in either the toolchain, rebuilding dependencies instead installing them from packages, or both.

These include:

• debian-bullseye resolve demo-debian-bullseye cxx11 abi string issue #62
• opensuse-leap