docs: update v0.21 release notes

Author: calvinrzachman

docs/release-notes/release-notes-0.21.0.md

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 ## Breaking Changes
 
+* Added [duplicate safety to `switch.SendHTLC`](https://github.com/lightningnetwork/lnd/pull/10049). This method will no longer
+  forward an onion with the same attempt ID twice without the result for a given
+  ID having been cleaned from the network result store. This ensures "at most
+  once" delivery and request processing of a given HTLC attempt, allowing a
+  remote router or rpc client to safely retry htlc dispatch requests without
+  creating duplicate attempts. This extends the more narrow duplicate safety
+  already provided by the Switch’s `CircuitMap`.
+
+* The `ChannelRouter` has been updated to robustly handle the new error contract
+  from the idempotent `switch.SendHTLC` function. When faced with a persistent
+  and ambiguous dispatch error, the router will now prioritize fund safety by
+  halting the payment's life-cycle manager. This prevents a class of bugs where
+  an ambiguous error could be misinterpreted, potentially leading to a duplicate
+  payment. Final resolution of the ambiguous attempt is safely deferred to the
+  router's attempt resumption logic on restart.
+
+
 ## Performance Improvements
 
 ## Deprecations