infra: GitHub action that will require that any PR has either this tag or "include-in-release",

[qinqon]

To reduce noise at the relase notes, we can create a github action that will require or add the tag to PRs ignore-for-release, so the process of adding a PR to a release note is controlled by the user, or create a mechanism that include the PR only if user add include-at-release

[qinqon]

/kind enhancement