src: use CP_UTF8 for wide file names on win32

`src/node_modules.cc` needs to be consistent with `src/node_file.cc` in
how it translates the utf8 strings to `std::wstring` otherwise we might
end up in situation where we can read the source code of imported
package from disk, but fail to recognize that it is an ESM (or CJS) and
cause runtime errors. This type of error is possible on Windows when the
path contains unicode characters and "Language for non-Unicode programs"
is set to "Chinese (Traditional, Taiwan)".

See: #58768
PR-URL: #60575
Reviewed-By: Anna Henningsen <anna@addaleax.net>
Reviewed-By: Darshan Sen <raisinten@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Stefan Stojanovic <stefan.stojanovic@janeasystems.com>
Reviewed-By: Juan José Arboleda <soyjuanarbol@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Joyee Cheung <joyeec9h3@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Rafael Gonzaga <rafael.nunu@hotmail.com>

Author: indutny