fix: prevent large root/parent metadata updates from endlessly retrying #3162

Job	Run time
typecheck / typecheck	4m 39s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - pnpm)	2m 17s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - npm)	5m 18s
units / packages / 🧪 Unit Tests: Packages (1, 1)	6m 16s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - pnpm)	5m 15s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - npm)	2m 12s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (1, 8)	5m 43s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (2, 8)	4m 26s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (4, 8)	4m 40s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (5, 8)	3m 55s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (3, 8)	3m 51s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (1, 10)	2m 9s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (7, 8)	2m 26s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (8, 8)	1m 54s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (3, 10)	2m 10s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (2, 10)	3m 48s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (5, 10)	11m 59s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (4, 10)	5m 6s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (6, 10)	2m 36s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (9, 10)	2m 6s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (7, 10)	2m 11s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (8, 10)	2m 22s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (10, 10)	2m 27s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (6, 8)	4m 41s
units / internal / 📊 Merge Reports	25s
units / packages / 📊 Merge Reports	24s
units / webapp / 📊 Merge Reports	28s
	1h 35m 44s

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