fix: prevent large root/parent metadata updates from endlessly retrying #3163

Job	Run time
typecheck / typecheck	5m 4s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - pnpm)	2m 12s
units / packages / 🧪 Unit Tests: Packages (1, 1)	3m 31s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - pnpm)	4m 55s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (ubuntu-latest - npm)	2m 11s
e2e / 🧪 CLI v3 tests (windows-latest - npm)	6m 16s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (1, 10)	2m 9s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (3, 10)	2m 12s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (5, 10)	12m 6s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (8, 10)	2m 18s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (10, 10)	2m 11s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (5, 8)	4m 1s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (8, 8)	1m 53s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (2, 8)	4m 17s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (6, 10)	2m 43s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (1, 8)	5m 26s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (9, 10)	2m 8s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (4, 10)	5m 8s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (3, 8)	3m 36s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (2, 10)	3m 30s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (6, 8)	4m 48s
units / webapp / 🧪 Unit Tests: Webapp (7, 10)	2m 7s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (4, 8)	4m 54s
units / internal / 🧪 Unit Tests: Internal (7, 8)	2m 44s
units / packages / 📊 Merge Reports	19s
units / internal / 📊 Merge Reports	19s
units / webapp / 📊 Merge Reports	28s
	1h 33m 26s

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