use trapping-math with clang

[mattip]

• I updated the package version in pyproject.toml and made sure the first 3 numbers match git describe --tags --abbrev=8 in OpenBLAS at the OPENBLAS_COMMIT. If I did not update OPENBLAS_COMMIT, I incremented the wheel build number (i.e. 0.3.29.0.0 to 0.3.29.0.1)
• Use -ftrapping-math when building on macos-arm64 with clang to prevent spurious floating point errors
• Use macos-latest CI image.

[mattip]

Moving from macos-13 to macos-latest means that now the native build is arm64 and x86_64 is a cross-compile. Let's leave that for another PR.