sea: support argv in sea config

[hotpineapple]

implement argv config for sea including snapshot

this resolves todo message:

// TODO(joyeecheung): make the arguments configurable through the JSON
// config or a programmatic API.

[nodejs-github-bot]

Review requested:

• @nodejs/single-executable

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 81.15942% with 13 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 88.55%. Comparing base (f9fcc74) to head (8aa1533).
⚠️ Report is 43 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/node_sea.cc	81.15%	8 Missing and 5 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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  Lines      208125   208480     +355     
  Branches    40003    40065      +62     
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+ Hits       184332   184614     +282     
- Misses      15809    15875      +66     
- Partials     7984     7991       +7     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
src/node_sea.cc	84.39% <81.15%> (-0.68%)	⬇️

... and 64 files with indirect coverage changes

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